Each year from that point on I took one of my two daughters to prom. We would alternate each year, unless it was a year that my school also had a formal dance (or Homecoming, or Valentines, or any other dance), in which case each of them would get to go. In my estimation I have gone to over a dozen dances with my daughters.
One of my saving graces was buying fake corsages (they're actually real, as in they actually exist, but I don't know what to call a corsage that is made from fake flowers). Each year we get dressed up, I dust off a corsage for my girl, and we go dance.
There have certainly been times when I have not wanted to chaperone prom. The end of the school year is exhausting and the last thing I want to do is put on a tux and wander around a teenager-filled dance hall while DJ Fresh is playing awful music by some techno artist I've never heard of (does that statement make me sound 80 years old?). After I force myself out of the house, the enjoyment of being there for my students is a highlight, but the delight these dances brings to my daughters is absolutely priceless and keeps me going year after year.
I've said it before, but I think it is worth repeating. Dads, even if dancing is not your thing, create traditions with your kids. Big E just recently told me that none of her friends go on dates with their dads, and it just about broke my heart. Don't underestimate the value of a little bit of time dancing to YMCA, playing mini golf, or just enjoying each other's company over an ice cream sundae.
And to my girls, when it is your prom and you're attending as students, save a dance for your daddy.